Phamtastic Together [Part 1]

I remember crying in my car to my best friend, Michelle, about having to wait three years to marry Khang. Upset because we needed time to save up enough money to pay for a big wedding that our parents wanted. I’m not going to lie, there was bitterness in the beginning. But after much discussion, we accepted the sacrifices and agreed to our parents’ way…and it surprisingly ended up being the best way.

I wouldn’t trade our engagement/wedding experience for anything even that “Mountain Wedding” we thought we once wanted. Not only did Khang and I grow deeper in our relationship, we grew deeper in our faith. We started praying daily together and began to spiritually get ready for our wedding and more importantly our marriage. As always, God has a plan and it’s wonderful when I’m finally able to find out his blessings for me. For us. Maybe I’ll share more of that journey one day.

But for now, here’s our wedding story from my perspective. The highlights of course.

Okay, so you know that feeling you get when someone says “You’re so beautiful” and because of the way they say it and the look in their eyes you just know they mean it? You feel like the most beautiful creature in the whole world because it’s like that person sees all the beauty you hold at that very moment? You’re wonderfully caught off guard. Well this is how Khang always gets me when he does it. I cannot think of a moment where this happened and I was all doll’d up. It always unexpectedly happens when I’m bare-faced with messy hair.

This is why I decided to go almost make-up free with the exception of eyelash extensions (no mascara) and Burt Bees lip balm for our “first look”. I wanted Khang to see his idea of beautiful me. We woke up early in the morning before all the hustle and bustle at a secluded area in Gulf Island National Seashore Park in my hometown of Ocean Springs, MS.


After a little photo session, we headed back to our separate houses to get ready. My bridal squad included my best friend, Michelle, my two sisters Jill and Joy, and my sister-in-law Ngoc.

It was important to me to have these four lovely ladies by my side. I remember giving a little impromptu speech-something along these lines:

“I know today is about celebrating Khang and I, but I want y’all to know that I’m celebrating my relationship with each one of you too. People always praise how long Khang and I have been together… but if you think about it…I’ve known you… *pointing at Ngoc* just as long as I’ve known Khang…*pointing at Michelle* since babyhood…*pointing at Joy* your whole life…*pointing at Jill* my entire life… I want y’all to know Khang and I wouldn’t be here today about to get married without the love and support you’ve shown us throughout our relationship. Thank you so much. It means more than you’ll ever know.”

There were some teary eyes so I proceeded to do the chicken dance to lighten the mood because that hair and make-up took a lot of work!

Off we went to the place where it all started: Vietnamese St. Martyrs Catholic Church in Biloxi, MS.

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DIYwithjules: Fall leaves galore


It’s November 1st and I know I’m not the only one thinking “LOOK AT ALL THESE BEAUTIFUL FALL LEAVES”. If this is you and you’re wondering how to preserve a few of those lovely leaves then this DIY is for you m’dear.

This blog post is dedicated to my sweet cousin, Caitlyn, who asked to “show me your ways” when I did something similar several weeks ago.

Step one: Collect leaves-I went scavenging in our backyard. To my delight there were red, orange, and yellow leaves!

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Step two: Admire and take fun snapshots!

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Step three: Wash and dry. There will be dirt (&bugs).

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Step four: Find a book to begin dry-pressing asap. Be careful when placing to avoid folding edges of leaves. Wait about 2 days depending on size.

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Step five: Open up those pages and check out your #foreverfall leaves 🙂 You can frame them, use as place cards, or something I like to do is write a quote with them. 


Yes, I know. I’m missing the ‘s’ in ‘crayons’. Brain fart.


*Shout out to my cousin, Caitlyn Do.


 I used DecoColor Extra Fine Paint Pen. And no, Hobby Lobby is not sponsoring this post. I just really love Hobby Lobby.


Old photo of when I first did this. Look at all those lovely fall colors on EACH LEAF.

I know this is about preserving fall leaves, but you can use green leaves too! Ya know, for gloomy winters. They’ll be reminders of what is to come as the cold bears down on you.

Well I’ll leave y’all to it. Please share photos if you try it out or ask questions if you’re not sure about something.

Thanks for reading and following along

with me,


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